Thee BADD BITCH syndrome

There was a TWITTER discussion about "BADD BITCHES"... Well in my opinion I think its a "BADD BITCH SYNDROME" floating around in the water supply. Of course, every woman should feel top notch but really, be realistic. NO woman can amass all the qualities to be considered a "Badd bitch" to every man. 

As usual, I did a survey on what some people would think is "badd bitch"... The people said:

• Looks
• Independence
• Confidence
• Education/Intelligence
• Style/Swagger
• Career
• Home skills
• Credit

Many women do have all of the above but the quality may slack! You can be a business owner with degrees but look a horse in heat. You can look like a goddess but dress like a street bum. To be well rounded, you must have a satisfactory quality of effort and execution. BUT, for some STRRAANNGGEE reason alot of chicks with ABSOLUTELY nothing listed above feel they can consider themselves "badd" and in the same category the women who have 6 out of 8. I blame all this on the dudes these days though. They lie so much to get "pannies" its absolutely absurd! "Gassing" the girlies up is a game for them. All of it has to be for pure comedy. 

Me personally, I think a badd bitch is a woman who carries her own. She looks the BEST she can (even if she's ugly, she looks her best lol), and needs for nothing. First impressions of a Badd bitch are looks of course, but after a while, the "badd" title remains if you are top notch of that mans standards.

LADIES BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE BADD DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE. YOU HAVE ROOM TO ADVANCE YOURSELF. THINKING YOU'RE ALREADY BADD WITHOUT ANY ACCOMPLISHMENTS, YOU WILL HAVE YOU MEDIOCRE ALL YOUR LIFE! 

IJS BE BETTER THAN YOUR BEST!

RaNdOmNeSs

Random Post of my fave quotes and scriptures. I've repeated these through the toughest times in life or I have recited them to myself to keep motivation. Either way, they all have kept me moon walking through life with no worries at all! Hope they can be some inspiration to you =)

"The LORD is my strength and my defense he has become my salvation.
He is my God, and I will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him" - Exodus 15:2

"All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty" - Proverbs 14:23

"LIMITATION IS A CREATION OF THE MIND" - UNKNOWN

"SOME THINGS AREN'T MEANT TO BE CHASED, THEY'RE MEANT TO BE CONQUERED" - 

 UNKNOWN

"NEVER MAKE SOMEONE YOUR PRIORITY WHEN YOU'RE JUST AN OPTION" - ANONYMOUS

"EMANCIPATE YOURSELF FROM MENTAL SLAVERY. NONE BUT OURSELVES CAN FREE OUR MINDS"- BOB MARLEY

"A RIVER CUTS THROUGH ROCK, NOT BECAUSE OF ITS POWER, BUT BECAUSE OF ITS PERSISTENCE" - JIM WATKINS

"THERE ARE GROWN MEN WITH HOLES ON THEIR SOULS THE SHAPE OF THEIR FATHERS" - CHRIS GARDNER

"IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE 2-FACED, AT LEAST MAKE ONE OF THEM PRETTY" -

MARILYN MONROE

**SPOTLIGHT SONG OF THE WEEK**

I've decided to add a new song every week to feature recent songs that have been released to the public! Both Signed and unsigned artist. 

This week, RansomNote will be the first artist to be featured SPOTLIGHT SONG OF THE WEEK. Its only right to have him grace my blog with his recent release off his upcoming mixtape 'rEVOLVEr'. 

        "Main Attraction" was released late yesterday and  has already created a buzz! This young mans lyrical content is SICKENING! Every line is worth reciting. My fave line, which you may see a lot on my blog, is "This year all my words been my actions. That's why I'm the main attraction". Miami is well represented through him because he is a RARE Miami rapper that doesn't make "booty shaking club bangers". His music won't be appreciated at a "hood party" but will be appreciated amongst artists with God-given talent! I see a long prosperous future for Ransom so get used to the name. The rap game better prepare for this strong rap force!

The Unfiltered Psyche of Classy proudly presents the release of "Main Attraction" off the forth coming mixtape 'rEVOLVEr'....

LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD "MAIN ATTRACTION" HERE

NPN Presents:: "Downtown Splashdown" 6.18.11

 

 THE BIGGEST POOL PARTY TOOK PLACE YESTERDAY AT THE VICEROY HOTEL IN DOWNTOWN MIAMI! 50 STORIES UP SO IMAGINE THE VIEW! 1 WORD CAN DESCRIBE THIS POOL PARTY. "UNFORGETTABLE"!! I CANT STRESS THE FACT THAT THE VIEW WAS AMAZING, THE MUSIC (BOUGHT TO US BY THE INCREDIBLE DJ TIGHT) WAS GREAT, AND THE PEOPLE CAME TO HAVE FUN!! 

 

WELL HERE ARE SOME PICS FROM THE PARTY! IF YOU MISSED IT, WELL THEN, U MISSED IT! LOL. 

ENJOY =)

PICS COURTESY OF:: TWITPIC.COM, TWITTER.COM, FACEBOOK.COM, IVAN BERRIOS

"Soul Food" - RansomNote

This is the latest visual released by Miami's own 'RansomNote'. I'm impatiently waiting on the release of his next mixtape "rEVOLVEr". I had the pleasure of previewing it and I must say THAT SHIT GO SOOOO HARD!

His lyrical talent is beyond his years and the content of his work has the quality of the 90's when artist were actually passionate bout their work. His last mixtape "Nintendope", which was released in late 2010, was listed in the top 100 on datpiff.com within the first hour of its release! So you can only imagine the time in effort he put into "rEVOLVEr" to maintain his greatness.

When "rEVOLVEr" is released, I will do an interview with Ransom so we can get a first hand scoop inside his musical genius.

**DOWNLOAD "NINTENDOPE" HERE**

MENtality

I’ve always wondered what would be the defining factor of a man preferring a chick over the next. So, I asked my followers, *cough* all 646 of them boomshakalaka, “Fellas: What do you consider the best attribute of a woman?” Surprisingly, my male followers went beyond physical attraction and gave me great answers.

                 

          I decided to make a post on it so that young ladies can actually know what will keep their man happy. A lot of times we THINK we know but really have no idea. Ok, the responses included:  

•  Personality/Quality/Character - The fellas said that they want a woman to “vibe” with them instead of being, basically, the opponent. Ladies your personality will make your looks a “NON MOTHERFUCKIN FACTOR”.  You must have an intriguing and stimulating convo to keep his mind into you.  Know your worth and make him work for it. The way you present yourself determines the type of man and or treatment you receive. Men around 25 come to terms with quality over quantity so don’t be “another shorty he put the naughty on” but instead be his counterpart. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Act like it!

• Reputation- Believe it or not, dudes talk more than females. If your name is mentioned in any given circle of friends, there will be volunteered info. Now, its up to you ladies to give truth to the stories or not. Please don’t think in the moment and think about how it will affect you later on. Obviously, you guys will take words of advice from your boys about a chick. Remember though, every story has 3 sides. His, hers and the truth. So ladies if you feel like you’re at the point of finding something real, clean up your act. Find yourself then a man will take notice.

• Aspirations/Ambition- I’m pretty sure this is what EVERYONE wants in a significant other. Ladies, the fellas want some one who is as hungry as him! Someone who is willing to put in work to come to an ultimate goal. Ambition shows that you are willing to do what ever it takes to get what you want. One thing for sure, NO man wants a lazy bitch!!

• “Ride or die”- I received this response about 4 times lol. Fellas really want a chick to hold him down in any situation. Ladies, Men like to feel secure. If he knows that you got his back, he will have yours. Don’t expect him to do what you want but he can’t even count on you to cook him dinner occasionally. Any given circumstance, a man wants his girl to support him. Whether it be right or wrong. Its cool to let him know you don’t agree with it but still do your part so he KNOWS that he can trust you with everything. If your dude tells you something and you tell your homegirls, he won’t trust you. You have to be HIS confidant. Fellas, same goes for you though. We want the same effort! Don’t let the “relationship” be one-sided cuz shit can get reeeaaalll hectic reeaalll fast.

All in all, ladies have charisma, character, ambition, be open and loyal and you will be set apart from the rest. Only a strong woman can handle a strong man =)

Special thanks to @BenzMIA, @Lacrosse_Polo, @8duecedre, @305JP and others for your input.

"NIGGER"......my POV

Nigger is defined as: 1. a. black person b. member of any dark-skinned people; 2. person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc; 3. victim of prejudice similar to that suffered by blacks; person who is economically, politically, or socially disenfranchised..


Now def:1 is the most obvious! Black in English is derived from the word "negre" or "negro"! These words mean BLACK or dark color. Because the whites have never seen any color but their own, they called the Africans the color that they can relate to! Remember, Blacks were not just grabbed from their families as some people wanna depict! Many tribes leaders SOLD people for money for their village..... People complain about the Amistad! I'm not saying its right AT ALL! But think...there wasn't carnival cruise line then! They made do! U try feeding thousands of people! U already spent money paying for them..U can't afford to spend extra on lobster tails and caviar! I personally think if slaves were treated a lil better, we probably would have been enslaved way longer because the blacks wouldn't put up a fight! They would settle because what they wouldnt think that their situation isn't bad. They wouldn't have nothing to compare to. 

     Def:2 comes commonly because blacks weren't allowed to learn! So therefore they were ignorant. Ignorant in the sense of not knowing or lacking knowledge. They were considered inferior and thought they were unable to learn because of the stupidity that the slave owners spoke. I think white people thought that they were just supposed to operate without any guidence but fail to realize they had to be taught. They didn't want the blacks to learn to read because of the northern rights. The fear of them leaving was the ultimate fear.White people knew about investment but wasn't to bright on management. If a slave doesn't have food or water their body won't work! If their body's don't work then they can't work. If the masters provided adequate pay and food the slaves wouldn't want to rebel! But..... Because they were so selfish they were worried about getting all the profit instead of a % turn around. 

     Def:3 is because blacks had to build literally from nothing. So their living situation is economically the worst! Blacks provided what they could and went from there. What the whites fail to realize was that the blacks that survived the passage were the strongest! So genetically the blacks will pass that strength and endurance down from generation to generation. Now... Slowly but surely blacks realized that because they grew up in a certain lifestyle they don't have to be scared to change it! It was embedded in the slaves mind that this is their worth and they deserve nothing more. A child will grow up and pass this acceptance to their children. Nothing was given to blacks! Everything was done own our own. Some other races did help but it wasn't help to build us up it was help just to cover up what we were already in the process of doing. Def:2 says that its ignorance of ANY RACE! Go to a "ghetto" of white majority and call them a "nigger" and see the dumb face u get! As long as blacks give the word "nigger" a derogatory meaning, it will have one! If ur not BLACK or "ignorant" to life then don't answer to something ur not! Technically calling a white person WHITE is a racial slur! Their skin isn't white but that's the closest in color! I don't think NIGGER was taken out of context until people became so "anti-black" towards the end of slavery! They wanted to disown everything that was affiliated with slavery even their color! Black has the same origin in ever language! It will never change!!! As long as u try to seperate urself from ur color it will hold a negative meaning! We are all derived from a strong country in Africa! We are descendants of the strongest people!! How can u not be proud of that!! If someone call u a nigger accept it in pride! We are the best race! We built part of this country with our bare hands! Our woman raised the strongest kids! Why do u think some white woman buckle when they get a divorce?? They can't stand on their own! Black woman have been partially single moms since time began! The men were always gone extended periods of time working to help the family or sold to another plantation! Black woman know how to survive without help for a period of time! Its in our genes! U won't find white people saying "I'm not white I'm beige!" Or "I'm not white I'm peach" STOP saying "I'm not black I'm brown" or "I'm not black I'm red" ur not red either!!! Look at a crayon and look at u! Black wasn't described as a literal color it was resemblance! I know some Africans that will tell u that they don't like "african-american" culture! Ask them why! Black Americans focus so much on not being a "nigger" that their losing the authenticity! Being white isn't better! Being Latin isn't either! Black people are dying their hair, perming it, wearing FAKE everything just not to look like a "nigger"! Some even bleach their skin to be lighter! That's just ridiculous! Bleach! Really?? I'm a victim of my society but I don't let tv determine my lifestyle! Some people really need to wake up and realize they are a NIGGER, NEGRO what ever! Race was develop to seperate people! Deal with it! You are allowed to bubble whiteur race! Race doesn't mean shit! Its ur roots! The govt wants to label everything! I'm closes to black so I'm a nigger! It's what culture you choose to affiliate yourself with. I'm not gonna deny my color and blood! Dnt matter if ur from haiti, DR, canada, or Europe! Ur still black! We all originated in AFRICA! Egypt is in Africa! The location of our ancestors determined our skin color. So don't let the white people tell u that ur anything less than what u are! Ur a nigger! Be proud because niggers have come the farthest to be where we are!! Our struggle was long and hard! And its sad to see some people take the change to the extreme! U can't change ur blood just embrace it! If a dude call a chick a hoe who cares! She becomes the hoe when she answers to it! U are what u answer to! I'm a nigger! What about U??!

Remember dictionaries update by the social acceptance! So ignorance was when we were uneducated, and economically disenfranchised was added at the time when the blacks were lowest on the social status! But the original meaning is BLACK! All words and meanings change over time! Its up to us if it remains with a derogatory connotation!

Journey on HCG

*Sigh* So im almost done with the HCG diet I got from Nicky Rae (www.exclusiverules.com)... This has been an exciting but yet frustrating experience!!  The weight loss is GREAT but I'm hungrier than a hostage! Im using  drops that im convincing myself taste like vodka lol. Its all the "liq" I can have on the diet. For you to understand how hungry I am this is an example of what I will eat for a day::

MORNING:

• Cup of Green tea 

AFTERNOON:

• Half a grapefruit
• ((1)) scrambled egg 
• handful of lettuce

EVENING:

• 3.5oz of chicken breast
• handful of Asparagus
• half a grapefruit

Not to shabby right??... WRONG! That's like death waiting to happen!! I absolutely LOVE the diet but I just wish my mentality was strong!....I know you're wondering if I cheated, HELL YES I DAMN SURE DID! I gained 3lbs. When I seen that, I was like "Fuck the got damn shit"... Now I'm working my ass off trying to get it off SMH.

Nicky Rae is an absolute great person and she was my biggest motivation to do it. I was indecisive for soooo long. When I finally decided to do it, she helped me with everything. Well, now I'm 10lbs from my goal. Workouts along with the diet everyday, I will get there in no time. Kickboxing on Sunday with Nicky Rae also will have me thick!!!!! I'll update you when I'm done with it all because I'll be so happy that I can finally eat a turkey burger from TGI Fridays *licks lips* yummmm!

Me NOW ;-)

The Beginning

Welllll... I am Classy. A vigorous, determined, out-of-the ordinary type of chick. I created this blog to speak on what everyone else is basically afraid to say. "Classy" was a nickname given to me because of my demeanor... But my MIND is the complete opposite. My views and opinions are not of the typical 23 year old woman of Miami. This blog will give a direct insight of my random thoughts of current events, lifestyle and beyond. I will also use the blog for tips and discussion of topics that may be on TWITTER or FACEBOOK. Consider this new blog site the "damn she aint lyin" site and the "connects" site... If you need it I more than likely have a connect for it... :-) Enjoy my thoughts, tips, advice and UNFILTERED ramble.