WITHIN THE PAST WEEK THERE WAS A VIDEO RELEASED OF A 14 YEAR OLD GIRL GIVING ORAL SEX OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL WHILE THE YOUNG MAN'S FRIENDS WATCHED AND RECORDED IT. ITS 2011 AND IT SEEMS THAT SEX IS BECOMING MORE PREVALENT IN OUR YOUNGER GENERATION. GRANTED, TEENS HAVE SEX BUT I REALLY BELIEVE, WE AS YOUNG PEOPLE, ARE LOST. CHILDREN DON'T WANT TO BE CHILDREN ANYMORE BECAUSE ADULTS ARE DOING "GROWN UP" THINGS IN FRONT OF THEM. THIS VIDEO DISTURBED ME ON MORE LEVELS THAN ONE. I HAVE YOUNGER FAMILY MEMBERS AND THIS VIDEO MADE ME REALIZE HOW LITTLE I AM INVOLVED IN THEIR LIFE.
IT MADE ME REALIZE THAT ME BEING A YOUNG ADULT, SHOULD HELP GUIDE THE YOUNGER COMMUNITY AND SHOW THEM THAT IT IS OK TO ENJOY CHILDHOOD. MANY KIDS DO NOT HAVE AN ADULT FIGURE TO LOOK UP TO, OR A FAMILY BOND. THEIR ACTS ARE DONE FOR ATTENTION, ACCEPTANCE AND APPROVAL. IT ONLY TAKES 1 PERSON WILLING TO TAKE INITIATIVE TO BE A ROLE MODEL. A ROLE MODEL ISN'T A SAINT, ITS A PERSON WHO HAS A STORY TO TELL AND OVERCAME OBSTACLES THAT OTHERS CAN LEARN FROM.
FOR EXAMPLE:: THIS YOUNG LADY WAS AT SCHOOL. THERE ARE SOOO MANY THINGS SHE COULD OF BEEN DOING. IF SHE HAD A "BIG SISTER" SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN HEADED HOME TO GO TALK TO HER BIG SISTER ABOUT THE SITUATION AND WHAT THE BOY TOLD HER BEFORE THE INCIDENT HAPPENED. I REALLY BELIEVE THAT IF SHE HAD SOMEBODY OLDER THAT SHE TRUSTED AND RESPECTED THAT SHE KNEW SHE COULD TALK TO, THE INCIDENT WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED.
LADIES! PLEASE GET INVOLVED IN YOUR YOUNGER FAMILY AND FRIENDS LIFE! BELIEVE IT OR NOT THEY LISTEN. A 5 MINUTE CONVERSATION CAN PAVE A WAY TO A NEW DIRECTION. I ASK LADIES BECAUSE ULTIMATELY A MAN WILL ONLY DO WHAT THE WOMAN ALLOWS. IF YOUNG GIRLS LEARN AT AN EARLY AGE ABOUT SELF RESPECT AND CHARACTER, THEY WILL MAKE THE YOUNG MEN WORK FOR THEM.
