Friends VS FrENEMIES

Friends VS FrENEMIES will be a battle until the world ends THRICE! 

 FrENEMIES are the easiest to come by and the quickest to accumulate! So many people are willing to "fake the funk" if they feel it benefits them! It should never be a "friend" that you have "just to go to the club with" or "just to shop with". 9 times out of 10, either you or the person is around for gossip or to collect info to gossip to other people. Keep in mind, FrENEMIES smile in your face and  be your BFF when you're with them, but when another crowd is around its "oh we ain't friends" or "we ain't cool like that" -____- PEOPLE PLEASE GET REAL! Friends are people who there no matter what circumstance! A death in the family or you hitting the lottery.

       I'm not saying "associates" don't exist. Of course they do. Associates/Comrades are people with connects for mutual interest. FrENEMIES are for personal gain! Don't confuse the two. A person who will most likely be a FrENEMY is a person who doesn't have/ can't keep friends, tell you info about a person they call a friend, says "we aren't friends" about the person the call "sis/bro" everyday OR have seasonal friends.I cant figure out for the life of me why these kind of people exist! Is it popularity? Is it Fame? Smh, my only suggestion is openly put them on blast. THEY HAVE TO BE STOPPED! Don't let the people mingle around you if they cant put forth what you are offering. Leaches turn into FrENEMIES. I think jealousy is the turning point. Who the hell knows but I do know, be careful, FrENEMIES are spreading at an alarming rate. They are contaminating every circle of friends! Have your "Bitch Please" spray ready when you see 1 coming!!! 

MENtality

I’ve always wondered what would be the defining factor of a man preferring a chick over the next. So, I asked my followers, *cough* all 646 of them boomshakalaka, “Fellas: What do you consider the best attribute of a woman?” Surprisingly, my male followers went beyond physical attraction and gave me great answers.

                 

          I decided to make a post on it so that young ladies can actually know what will keep their man happy. A lot of times we THINK we know but really have no idea. Ok, the responses included:  

•  Personality/Quality/Character - The fellas said that they want a woman to “vibe” with them instead of being, basically, the opponent. Ladies your personality will make your looks a “NON MOTHERFUCKIN FACTOR”.  You must have an intriguing and stimulating convo to keep his mind into you.  Know your worth and make him work for it. The way you present yourself determines the type of man and or treatment you receive. Men around 25 come to terms with quality over quantity so don’t be “another shorty he put the naughty on” but instead be his counterpart. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Act like it!

• Reputation- Believe it or not, dudes talk more than females. If your name is mentioned in any given circle of friends, there will be volunteered info. Now, its up to you ladies to give truth to the stories or not. Please don’t think in the moment and think about how it will affect you later on. Obviously, you guys will take words of advice from your boys about a chick. Remember though, every story has 3 sides. His, hers and the truth. So ladies if you feel like you’re at the point of finding something real, clean up your act. Find yourself then a man will take notice.

• Aspirations/Ambition- I’m pretty sure this is what EVERYONE wants in a significant other. Ladies, the fellas want some one who is as hungry as him! Someone who is willing to put in work to come to an ultimate goal. Ambition shows that you are willing to do what ever it takes to get what you want. One thing for sure, NO man wants a lazy bitch!!

• “Ride or die”- I received this response about 4 times lol. Fellas really want a chick to hold him down in any situation. Ladies, Men like to feel secure. If he knows that you got his back, he will have yours. Don’t expect him to do what you want but he can’t even count on you to cook him dinner occasionally. Any given circumstance, a man wants his girl to support him. Whether it be right or wrong. Its cool to let him know you don’t agree with it but still do your part so he KNOWS that he can trust you with everything. If your dude tells you something and you tell your homegirls, he won’t trust you. You have to be HIS confidant. Fellas, same goes for you though. We want the same effort! Don’t let the “relationship” be one-sided cuz shit can get reeeaaalll hectic reeaalll fast.

All in all, ladies have charisma, character, ambition, be open and loyal and you will be set apart from the rest. Only a strong woman can handle a strong man =)

Special thanks to @BenzMIA, @Lacrosse_Polo, @8duecedre, @305JP and others for your input.