24th Bday!!

Soooo my bday is coming up!! Yay! Big 24th =)... Have so many memories and looking forward to the memories of right now!.... Anywho I feel like my bday is a holiday lol. So everyone, on December 8th, tell your boss "FUCK DA GOT DAMN SHIT"... Get live and tell them I said its ok lol...

For my bday I want a dollar from everyone =)... I'm the easiest person to satisfy =) So make me happy and "shot me a goat" <-- remember that from high school?? ppffftt so lame... Anyway, yeah, 'preciate ya ;-)

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TODAY'S FUTURE

       WITHIN THE PAST WEEK THERE WAS A VIDEO RELEASED OF A 14 YEAR OLD GIRL GIVING ORAL SEX OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL WHILE THE YOUNG MAN'S FRIENDS WATCHED AND RECORDED IT. ITS 2011 AND IT SEEMS THAT SEX IS BECOMING MORE PREVALENT IN OUR YOUNGER GENERATION. GRANTED, TEENS HAVE SEX BUT I REALLY BELIEVE, WE AS YOUNG PEOPLE, ARE LOST. CHILDREN DON'T WANT TO BE CHILDREN ANYMORE BECAUSE ADULTS ARE DOING "GROWN UP" THINGS IN FRONT OF THEM. THIS VIDEO DISTURBED ME ON MORE LEVELS THAN ONE. I HAVE YOUNGER FAMILY MEMBERS AND THIS VIDEO MADE ME REALIZE HOW LITTLE I AM INVOLVED IN THEIR LIFE. 

            IT MADE ME REALIZE THAT ME BEING A YOUNG ADULT, SHOULD HELP GUIDE THE YOUNGER COMMUNITY AND SHOW THEM THAT IT IS OK TO ENJOY CHILDHOOD. MANY KIDS DO NOT HAVE AN ADULT FIGURE TO LOOK UP TO, OR A FAMILY BOND. THEIR ACTS ARE DONE FOR ATTENTION, ACCEPTANCE AND APPROVAL. IT ONLY TAKES 1 PERSON WILLING TO TAKE INITIATIVE TO BE A ROLE MODEL. A ROLE MODEL ISN'T A SAINT, ITS A PERSON WHO HAS A STORY TO TELL AND OVERCAME OBSTACLES THAT OTHERS CAN LEARN FROM.


           FOR EXAMPLE:: THIS YOUNG LADY WAS AT SCHOOL. THERE ARE SOOO MANY THINGS SHE COULD OF BEEN DOING. IF SHE HAD A "BIG SISTER" SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN HEADED HOME TO GO TALK TO HER BIG SISTER ABOUT THE SITUATION AND WHAT THE BOY TOLD HER BEFORE THE INCIDENT HAPPENED. I REALLY BELIEVE THAT IF SHE HAD SOMEBODY OLDER THAT SHE TRUSTED AND RESPECTED THAT SHE KNEW SHE COULD TALK TO, THE INCIDENT WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED.

LADIES! PLEASE GET INVOLVED IN YOUR YOUNGER FAMILY AND FRIENDS LIFE! BELIEVE IT OR NOT THEY LISTEN. A 5 MINUTE CONVERSATION CAN PAVE A WAY TO A NEW DIRECTION. I ASK LADIES BECAUSE ULTIMATELY A MAN WILL ONLY DO WHAT THE WOMAN ALLOWS. IF YOUNG GIRLS LEARN AT AN EARLY AGE ABOUT SELF RESPECT AND CHARACTER, THEY WILL MAKE THE YOUNG MEN WORK FOR THEM.

rEVOLVEr

        IT'S HERE!!! RANSOM RELEASED "rEVOLVEr" LAST WEEK AND ITS BEEN STREAMING ALL ACROSS SOOO MANY STATES! I'M PROUD TO SAY THAT RANSOM PUT HIS SOUL INTO THIS MIXTAPE. FROM THE LYRICS TO THE BEATS TO THE MELODY, "rEVOLVEr" IS A MASTERPIECE! RANSOM IS A FUTURE MUSICAL ICON. NO AND'S, IF'S OR ASSES ABOUT IT!

The Unfiltered Psyche of Classy PROUDLY Presents::

Here's the 1st video released off "rEVOLVEr" in case you missed it

SOUL FOOD

Oatmeal Facial =)

Hey Ladies!

My mom taught me in high school how to make home remedies for great skin... The one I use most often is the oatmeal facial. Its great for the skin. Instead of going out buying so many products not knowing if they will work, you can use home ingredients that are guaranteed effective.

What you will need:: 

• 1pack of instant oatmeal (you can use other oatmeal as well. use judgement for amount)
• Milk
• Alcohol
• bowl and spoon (to mix)

Directions:

1. Make oatmeal as directed. 45 seconds in microwave. Make sure oatmeal is creamy.
2. Mix
3. Pour a shot of alcohol into oatmeal. No more than about 2 caps full.
4. Mix
5. Using your 4 fingers, apply oatmeal mixture to face. Its best that you stand over the sink in case access oatmeal falls.
6. Once applied to entire face, allow facial to dry. This takes about 10-15 minutes. You will know when it is complete when your face feels tight and it looks like a mask.
7. Rinse off entirely with warm water.
8. Pat dry with napkin
9. Apply moisturizer. I normally use Aveeno because its light and fragrance free.

This can be done once a month or if you have a special occasion you can do it before you hop in the shower. Quick and simple =)

**SPOTLIGHT SONG OF THE WEEK**

Frank Ocean- Novacane

This guy is majorly talented!!! This vid and song is creative and FRESH to the music game right now. I love the vid and how he incorporated the hallucinations. The video is showing the numbness he feels on the drug! DOPE! .....Literally.. lol... And that slap is awesome! I think that was to get everyone watching out that trance you kind of slip into. It sure made me laugh! LOL. But Frank Ocean, among his fellow friends, are going to have a problem in this industry. They are going to deserve more than what the people are going to give. REAL Raw Talent! Got to love it!

Here's another song with Frank Ocean::

"She" -Tyler the Creator Feat. Frank Ocean

Friends VS FrENEMIES

Friends VS FrENEMIES will be a battle until the world ends THRICE! 

 FrENEMIES are the easiest to come by and the quickest to accumulate! So many people are willing to "fake the funk" if they feel it benefits them! It should never be a "friend" that you have "just to go to the club with" or "just to shop with". 9 times out of 10, either you or the person is around for gossip or to collect info to gossip to other people. Keep in mind, FrENEMIES smile in your face and  be your BFF when you're with them, but when another crowd is around its "oh we ain't friends" or "we ain't cool like that" -____- PEOPLE PLEASE GET REAL! Friends are people who there no matter what circumstance! A death in the family or you hitting the lottery.

       I'm not saying "associates" don't exist. Of course they do. Associates/Comrades are people with connects for mutual interest. FrENEMIES are for personal gain! Don't confuse the two. A person who will most likely be a FrENEMY is a person who doesn't have/ can't keep friends, tell you info about a person they call a friend, says "we aren't friends" about the person the call "sis/bro" everyday OR have seasonal friends.I cant figure out for the life of me why these kind of people exist! Is it popularity? Is it Fame? Smh, my only suggestion is openly put them on blast. THEY HAVE TO BE STOPPED! Don't let the people mingle around you if they cant put forth what you are offering. Leaches turn into FrENEMIES. I think jealousy is the turning point. Who the hell knows but I do know, be careful, FrENEMIES are spreading at an alarming rate. They are contaminating every circle of friends! Have your "Bitch Please" spray ready when you see 1 coming!!! 

Thee BADD BITCH syndrome

There was a TWITTER discussion about "BADD BITCHES"... Well in my opinion I think its a "BADD BITCH SYNDROME" floating around in the water supply. Of course, every woman should feel top notch but really, be realistic. NO woman can amass all the qualities to be considered a "Badd bitch" to every man. 

As usual, I did a survey on what some people would think is "badd bitch"... The people said:

• Looks
• Independence
• Confidence
• Education/Intelligence
• Style/Swagger
• Career
• Home skills
• Credit

Many women do have all of the above but the quality may slack! You can be a business owner with degrees but look a horse in heat. You can look like a goddess but dress like a street bum. To be well rounded, you must have a satisfactory quality of effort and execution. BUT, for some STRRAANNGGEE reason alot of chicks with ABSOLUTELY nothing listed above feel they can consider themselves "badd" and in the same category the women who have 6 out of 8. I blame all this on the dudes these days though. They lie so much to get "pannies" its absolutely absurd! "Gassing" the girlies up is a game for them. All of it has to be for pure comedy. 

Me personally, I think a badd bitch is a woman who carries her own. She looks the BEST she can (even if she's ugly, she looks her best lol), and needs for nothing. First impressions of a Badd bitch are looks of course, but after a while, the "badd" title remains if you are top notch of that mans standards.

LADIES BECAUSE YOU THINK YOU ARE BADD DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE. YOU HAVE ROOM TO ADVANCE YOURSELF. THINKING YOU'RE ALREADY BADD WITHOUT ANY ACCOMPLISHMENTS, YOU WILL HAVE YOU MEDIOCRE ALL YOUR LIFE! 

IJS BE BETTER THAN YOUR BEST!

RaNdOmNeSs

Random Post of my fave quotes and scriptures. I've repeated these through the toughest times in life or I have recited them to myself to keep motivation. Either way, they all have kept me moon walking through life with no worries at all! Hope they can be some inspiration to you =)

"The LORD is my strength and my defense he has become my salvation.
He is my God, and I will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him" - Exodus 15:2

"All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk leads only to poverty" - Proverbs 14:23

"LIMITATION IS A CREATION OF THE MIND" - UNKNOWN

"SOME THINGS AREN'T MEANT TO BE CHASED, THEY'RE MEANT TO BE CONQUERED" - 

 UNKNOWN

"NEVER MAKE SOMEONE YOUR PRIORITY WHEN YOU'RE JUST AN OPTION" - ANONYMOUS

"EMANCIPATE YOURSELF FROM MENTAL SLAVERY. NONE BUT OURSELVES CAN FREE OUR MINDS"- BOB MARLEY

"A RIVER CUTS THROUGH ROCK, NOT BECAUSE OF ITS POWER, BUT BECAUSE OF ITS PERSISTENCE" - JIM WATKINS

"THERE ARE GROWN MEN WITH HOLES ON THEIR SOULS THE SHAPE OF THEIR FATHERS" - CHRIS GARDNER

"IF YOU'RE GOING TO BE 2-FACED, AT LEAST MAKE ONE OF THEM PRETTY" -

MARILYN MONROE

**SPOTLIGHT SONG OF THE WEEK**

I've decided to add a new song every week to feature recent songs that have been released to the public! Both Signed and unsigned artist. 

This week, RansomNote will be the first artist to be featured SPOTLIGHT SONG OF THE WEEK. Its only right to have him grace my blog with his recent release off his upcoming mixtape 'rEVOLVEr'. 

        "Main Attraction" was released late yesterday and  has already created a buzz! This young mans lyrical content is SICKENING! Every line is worth reciting. My fave line, which you may see a lot on my blog, is "This year all my words been my actions. That's why I'm the main attraction". Miami is well represented through him because he is a RARE Miami rapper that doesn't make "booty shaking club bangers". His music won't be appreciated at a "hood party" but will be appreciated amongst artists with God-given talent! I see a long prosperous future for Ransom so get used to the name. The rap game better prepare for this strong rap force!

The Unfiltered Psyche of Classy proudly presents the release of "Main Attraction" off the forth coming mixtape 'rEVOLVEr'....

LISTEN AND DOWNLOAD "MAIN ATTRACTION" HERE

NPN Presents:: "Downtown Splashdown" 6.18.11

 

 THE BIGGEST POOL PARTY TOOK PLACE YESTERDAY AT THE VICEROY HOTEL IN DOWNTOWN MIAMI! 50 STORIES UP SO IMAGINE THE VIEW! 1 WORD CAN DESCRIBE THIS POOL PARTY. "UNFORGETTABLE"!! I CANT STRESS THE FACT THAT THE VIEW WAS AMAZING, THE MUSIC (BOUGHT TO US BY THE INCREDIBLE DJ TIGHT) WAS GREAT, AND THE PEOPLE CAME TO HAVE FUN!! 

 

WELL HERE ARE SOME PICS FROM THE PARTY! IF YOU MISSED IT, WELL THEN, U MISSED IT! LOL. 

ENJOY =)

PICS COURTESY OF:: TWITPIC.COM, TWITTER.COM, FACEBOOK.COM, IVAN BERRIOS

"Soul Food" - RansomNote

This is the latest visual released by Miami's own 'RansomNote'. I'm impatiently waiting on the release of his next mixtape "rEVOLVEr". I had the pleasure of previewing it and I must say THAT SHIT GO SOOOO HARD!

His lyrical talent is beyond his years and the content of his work has the quality of the 90's when artist were actually passionate bout their work. His last mixtape "Nintendope", which was released in late 2010, was listed in the top 100 on datpiff.com within the first hour of its release! So you can only imagine the time in effort he put into "rEVOLVEr" to maintain his greatness.

When "rEVOLVEr" is released, I will do an interview with Ransom so we can get a first hand scoop inside his musical genius.

**DOWNLOAD "NINTENDOPE" HERE**

MENtality

I’ve always wondered what would be the defining factor of a man preferring a chick over the next. So, I asked my followers, *cough* all 646 of them boomshakalaka, “Fellas: What do you consider the best attribute of a woman?” Surprisingly, my male followers went beyond physical attraction and gave me great answers.

                 

          I decided to make a post on it so that young ladies can actually know what will keep their man happy. A lot of times we THINK we know but really have no idea. Ok, the responses included:  

•  Personality/Quality/Character - The fellas said that they want a woman to “vibe” with them instead of being, basically, the opponent. Ladies your personality will make your looks a “NON MOTHERFUCKIN FACTOR”.  You must have an intriguing and stimulating convo to keep his mind into you.  Know your worth and make him work for it. The way you present yourself determines the type of man and or treatment you receive. Men around 25 come to terms with quality over quantity so don’t be “another shorty he put the naughty on” but instead be his counterpart. YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Act like it!

• Reputation- Believe it or not, dudes talk more than females. If your name is mentioned in any given circle of friends, there will be volunteered info. Now, its up to you ladies to give truth to the stories or not. Please don’t think in the moment and think about how it will affect you later on. Obviously, you guys will take words of advice from your boys about a chick. Remember though, every story has 3 sides. His, hers and the truth. So ladies if you feel like you’re at the point of finding something real, clean up your act. Find yourself then a man will take notice.

• Aspirations/Ambition- I’m pretty sure this is what EVERYONE wants in a significant other. Ladies, the fellas want some one who is as hungry as him! Someone who is willing to put in work to come to an ultimate goal. Ambition shows that you are willing to do what ever it takes to get what you want. One thing for sure, NO man wants a lazy bitch!!

• “Ride or die”- I received this response about 4 times lol. Fellas really want a chick to hold him down in any situation. Ladies, Men like to feel secure. If he knows that you got his back, he will have yours. Don’t expect him to do what you want but he can’t even count on you to cook him dinner occasionally. Any given circumstance, a man wants his girl to support him. Whether it be right or wrong. Its cool to let him know you don’t agree with it but still do your part so he KNOWS that he can trust you with everything. If your dude tells you something and you tell your homegirls, he won’t trust you. You have to be HIS confidant. Fellas, same goes for you though. We want the same effort! Don’t let the “relationship” be one-sided cuz shit can get reeeaaalll hectic reeaalll fast.

All in all, ladies have charisma, character, ambition, be open and loyal and you will be set apart from the rest. Only a strong woman can handle a strong man =)

Special thanks to @BenzMIA, @Lacrosse_Polo, @8duecedre, @305JP and others for your input.

"NIGGER"......my POV

Nigger is defined as: 1. a. black person b. member of any dark-skinned people; 2. person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc; 3. victim of prejudice similar to that suffered by blacks; person who is economically, politically, or socially disenfranchised..


Now def:1 is the most obvious! Black in English is derived from the word "negre" or "negro"! These words mean BLACK or dark color. Because the whites have never seen any color but their own, they called the Africans the color that they can relate to! Remember, Blacks were not just grabbed from their families as some people wanna depict! Many tribes leaders SOLD people for money for their village..... People complain about the Amistad! I'm not saying its right AT ALL! But think...there wasn't carnival cruise line then! They made do! U try feeding thousands of people! U already spent money paying for them..U can't afford to spend extra on lobster tails and caviar! I personally think if slaves were treated a lil better, we probably would have been enslaved way longer because the blacks wouldn't put up a fight! They would settle because what they wouldnt think that their situation isn't bad. They wouldn't have nothing to compare to. 

     Def:2 comes commonly because blacks weren't allowed to learn! So therefore they were ignorant. Ignorant in the sense of not knowing or lacking knowledge. They were considered inferior and thought they were unable to learn because of the stupidity that the slave owners spoke. I think white people thought that they were just supposed to operate without any guidence but fail to realize they had to be taught. They didn't want the blacks to learn to read because of the northern rights. The fear of them leaving was the ultimate fear.White people knew about investment but wasn't to bright on management. If a slave doesn't have food or water their body won't work! If their body's don't work then they can't work. If the masters provided adequate pay and food the slaves wouldn't want to rebel! But..... Because they were so selfish they were worried about getting all the profit instead of a % turn around. 

     Def:3 is because blacks had to build literally from nothing. So their living situation is economically the worst! Blacks provided what they could and went from there. What the whites fail to realize was that the blacks that survived the passage were the strongest! So genetically the blacks will pass that strength and endurance down from generation to generation. Now... Slowly but surely blacks realized that because they grew up in a certain lifestyle they don't have to be scared to change it! It was embedded in the slaves mind that this is their worth and they deserve nothing more. A child will grow up and pass this acceptance to their children. Nothing was given to blacks! Everything was done own our own. Some other races did help but it wasn't help to build us up it was help just to cover up what we were already in the process of doing. Def:2 says that its ignorance of ANY RACE! Go to a "ghetto" of white majority and call them a "nigger" and see the dumb face u get! As long as blacks give the word "nigger" a derogatory meaning, it will have one! If ur not BLACK or "ignorant" to life then don't answer to something ur not! Technically calling a white person WHITE is a racial slur! Their skin isn't white but that's the closest in color! I don't think NIGGER was taken out of context until people became so "anti-black" towards the end of slavery! They wanted to disown everything that was affiliated with slavery even their color! Black has the same origin in ever language! It will never change!!! As long as u try to seperate urself from ur color it will hold a negative meaning! We are all derived from a strong country in Africa! We are descendants of the strongest people!! How can u not be proud of that!! If someone call u a nigger accept it in pride! We are the best race! We built part of this country with our bare hands! Our woman raised the strongest kids! Why do u think some white woman buckle when they get a divorce?? They can't stand on their own! Black woman have been partially single moms since time began! The men were always gone extended periods of time working to help the family or sold to another plantation! Black woman know how to survive without help for a period of time! Its in our genes! U won't find white people saying "I'm not white I'm beige!" Or "I'm not white I'm peach" STOP saying "I'm not black I'm brown" or "I'm not black I'm red" ur not red either!!! Look at a crayon and look at u! Black wasn't described as a literal color it was resemblance! I know some Africans that will tell u that they don't like "african-american" culture! Ask them why! Black Americans focus so much on not being a "nigger" that their losing the authenticity! Being white isn't better! Being Latin isn't either! Black people are dying their hair, perming it, wearing FAKE everything just not to look like a "nigger"! Some even bleach their skin to be lighter! That's just ridiculous! Bleach! Really?? I'm a victim of my society but I don't let tv determine my lifestyle! Some people really need to wake up and realize they are a NIGGER, NEGRO what ever! Race was develop to seperate people! Deal with it! You are allowed to bubble whiteur race! Race doesn't mean shit! Its ur roots! The govt wants to label everything! I'm closes to black so I'm a nigger! It's what culture you choose to affiliate yourself with. I'm not gonna deny my color and blood! Dnt matter if ur from haiti, DR, canada, or Europe! Ur still black! We all originated in AFRICA! Egypt is in Africa! The location of our ancestors determined our skin color. So don't let the white people tell u that ur anything less than what u are! Ur a nigger! Be proud because niggers have come the farthest to be where we are!! Our struggle was long and hard! And its sad to see some people take the change to the extreme! U can't change ur blood just embrace it! If a dude call a chick a hoe who cares! She becomes the hoe when she answers to it! U are what u answer to! I'm a nigger! What about U??!

Remember dictionaries update by the social acceptance! So ignorance was when we were uneducated, and economically disenfranchised was added at the time when the blacks were lowest on the social status! But the original meaning is BLACK! All words and meanings change over time! Its up to us if it remains with a derogatory connotation!

Journey on HCG

*Sigh* So im almost done with the HCG diet I got from Nicky Rae (www.exclusiverules.com)... This has been an exciting but yet frustrating experience!!  The weight loss is GREAT but I'm hungrier than a hostage! Im using  drops that im convincing myself taste like vodka lol. Its all the "liq" I can have on the diet. For you to understand how hungry I am this is an example of what I will eat for a day::

MORNING:

• Cup of Green tea 

AFTERNOON:

• Half a grapefruit
• ((1)) scrambled egg 
• handful of lettuce

EVENING:

• 3.5oz of chicken breast
• handful of Asparagus
• half a grapefruit

Not to shabby right??... WRONG! That's like death waiting to happen!! I absolutely LOVE the diet but I just wish my mentality was strong!....I know you're wondering if I cheated, HELL YES I DAMN SURE DID! I gained 3lbs. When I seen that, I was like "Fuck the got damn shit"... Now I'm working my ass off trying to get it off SMH.

Nicky Rae is an absolute great person and she was my biggest motivation to do it. I was indecisive for soooo long. When I finally decided to do it, she helped me with everything. Well, now I'm 10lbs from my goal. Workouts along with the diet everyday, I will get there in no time. Kickboxing on Sunday with Nicky Rae also will have me thick!!!!! I'll update you when I'm done with it all because I'll be so happy that I can finally eat a turkey burger from TGI Fridays *licks lips* yummmm!

Me NOW ;-)

The Beginning

Welllll... I am Classy. A vigorous, determined, out-of-the ordinary type of chick. I created this blog to speak on what everyone else is basically afraid to say. "Classy" was a nickname given to me because of my demeanor... But my MIND is the complete opposite. My views and opinions are not of the typical 23 year old woman of Miami. This blog will give a direct insight of my random thoughts of current events, lifestyle and beyond. I will also use the blog for tips and discussion of topics that may be on TWITTER or FACEBOOK. Consider this new blog site the "damn she aint lyin" site and the "connects" site... If you need it I more than likely have a connect for it... :-) Enjoy my thoughts, tips, advice and UNFILTERED ramble.